Lied to a fellow passenger about occupied bulkhead seat.
Nov 27, 2013, 10:58 am
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Lied to a fellow passenger about occupied bulkhead seat.
So on a recent QF flight to Dubai I was seated in a bulkhead seat when about 20 mins after takeoff a backpacker type of guy came up and asked to sit in the empty seat next to me, when I'd already spread out on to.
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
Nov 27, 2013, 11:01 am
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So on a recent QF flight to Dubai I was seated in a bulkhead seat when about 20 mins after takeoff a backpacker type of guy came up and asked to sit in the empty seat next to me, when I'd already spread out on to.
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
Nov 27, 2013, 11:45 am
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So on a recent QF flight to Dubai I was seated in a bulkhead seat when about 20 mins after takeoff a backpacker type of guy came up and asked to sit in the empty seat next to me, when I'd already spread out on to.
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
I lied and told him that my wife was sitting there and was in the toilet... Was that a bad lie?
Nov 27, 2013, 2:07 pm
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I learnt back in the 90's that a spare seat next to one in economy can be like a lottery win and should not be given up lightly.
Understandable the desire for more space - note the seat jumping "down the back" on lightly loaded flights once the seatbelt sign goes off.
If there was no obvious special consideration for the "requester" to have the seat I would have simply said no. If pressed I would have pulled the status/DWKWIA shadow card - with no regrets.
Understandable the desire for more space - note the seat jumping "down the back" on lightly loaded flights once the seatbelt sign goes off.
If there was no obvious special consideration for the "requester" to have the seat I would have simply said no. If pressed I would have pulled the status/DWKWIA shadow card - with no regrets.
Last edited by serfty; Nov 27, 2013 at 3:39 pm
Nov 27, 2013, 2:26 pm
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Moving on from my earlier issue that the OP seemed not to like "backpackers" (DWKHIA), I have successfully protected a centre row of 4 from predators who wanted 2 of the seats. It took courage, glares, moving as soon as the seatbelt light went out and stretching out immediately. I recall I ate in a horizontal position. It was quite fun really. The sleep was brilliant and I could stretch out better than in J or F. But that was in backpacker days .... 
Nov 27, 2013, 4:12 pm
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"Hey dude, can I significantly increase my own comfort by significantly decreasing yours?" No dude, you may not.
I generally don't lie under any circumstances but I can see that given the close quarters it can be best to defuse the situation with a bald-faced lie rather than get into an argument about who has the right to do what.
Nov 27, 2013, 4:24 pm
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I would've lied and said it was occupied. The chap was cheeky asking in the first place.
Nov 27, 2013, 4:33 pm
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Nov 27, 2013, 4:39 pm
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Bulkheads and extra legroom are protected by cabin crew on many airlines these days. VS for example will ask you to pay the extra charge if you are not booked into that seat. I would have said the seat was soiled but hey that's me
Nov 27, 2013, 4:41 pm
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Why did dude think he could move in the first place?
I would have done the same thing you did, OP. Except I would have told him it was my supermodel girlfriend.
I would have done the same thing you did, OP. Except I would have told him it was my supermodel girlfriend.
Nov 27, 2013, 4:58 pm
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"Sorry, mate, its in use already" .... (by my ipad/book/laptop).
If they insist, I would direct them to gain permission from a flight attendant and hope that the FA comes and asks me first, where my response would be extremely hesitant and hopefully portray the message accurately.
I assume the OP must have had the block of three seats to himself. In such a circumstance, I will always sit in either the aisle seat or the middle seat, ensuring that the middle/aisle are not seen as an attractive target for seat-hoppers. I avoid sitting in the window seat and leaving the others as bait.
If they insist, I would direct them to gain permission from a flight attendant and hope that the FA comes and asks me first, where my response would be extremely hesitant and hopefully portray the message accurately.
I assume the OP must have had the block of three seats to himself. In such a circumstance, I will always sit in either the aisle seat or the middle seat, ensuring that the middle/aisle are not seen as an attractive target for seat-hoppers. I avoid sitting in the window seat and leaving the others as bait.
Nov 27, 2013, 9:44 pm
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Nov 27, 2013, 10:49 pm
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On Jetstar (international at least ) on flights I have been on , it has been part of the announcements that have to stay in allocated seat