Jul 14, 2015, 2:48 pm
Last edit by: BadgerBoi
The Definitive Guide to Seat Poaching
1. Don't do it.
2. Alternatively to #1: Asking politely (and not demanding) to swap for an equal or better seat is acceptable by most (but the final decision always lays with the original seat holder)...but, be warned, some FT'ers may breathe fire at you.
3. Keep in mind that Point 2 is not seat poaching.
1. Don't do it.
2. Alternatively to #1: Asking politely (and not demanding) to swap for an equal or better seat is acceptable by most (but the final decision always lays with the original seat holder)...but, be warned, some FT'ers may breathe fire at you.
3. Keep in mind that Point 2 is not seat poaching.
Seat Swapping, Seat Poaching and Seating Etiquette: The Definitive Thread
Jan 19, 2016, 7:36 am
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Sorry, meant on double aisle aircraft! On single aisles we book a window and aisle. If someone sits in the middle, oh well.
Jan 19, 2016, 7:43 am
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Jan 19, 2016, 12:18 pm
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I sometimes stress that I picked the seat I wanted when I purchased the ticket, but Ms. 3B's response is much more direct. Bravo!
Jan 19, 2016, 12:55 pm
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Jan 19, 2016, 1:01 pm
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Jan 19, 2016, 1:28 pm
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Being in full uniform, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your POV, tempered the teenage desire to say something snarky, and I dutifuly took the middle seat, only to have them speak directly across me in Spanish until the fasten seat belt sign turned off and I was mercifully able to move to another empty middle seat with a couple of other people who were on the trip with me.
This is one of those scenarios I still replay in my head about what I should have said!
Jan 19, 2016, 1:30 pm
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When I was a teenager I went to National Jamboree in Washington DC for Boy Scouts. On my flight home, I had a window seat, and when I board there is someone in my seat. Her traveling companion is in the aisle, and they look at me...in my full Boy Scout uniform....and ask if I really wanted the window or if I'd take the middle.
Being in full uniform, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your POV, tempered the teenage desire to say something snarky, and I dutifuly took the middle seat, only to have them speak directly across me in Spanish until the fasten seat belt sign turned off and I was mercifully able to move to another empty middle seat with a couple of other people who were on the trip with me.
This is one of those scenarios I still replay in my head about what I should have said!
Being in full uniform, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your POV, tempered the teenage desire to say something snarky, and I dutifuly took the middle seat, only to have them speak directly across me in Spanish until the fasten seat belt sign turned off and I was mercifully able to move to another empty middle seat with a couple of other people who were on the trip with me.
This is one of those scenarios I still replay in my head about what I should have said!
Jan 19, 2016, 3:02 pm
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Jan 19, 2016, 3:56 pm
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On a recent cruise trip, Mrs. Paplover and I had aisle/window seats with the hope that the middle would be empty. Of course not, silly me. Anyway, there were no issues with trading our window with the person in the middle after asking if they wanted to switch. Much easier that way for all of us instead of keeping the original seats.
Jan 19, 2016, 3:58 pm
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On a recent cruise trip, Mrs. Paplover and I had aisle/window seats with the hope that the middle would be empty. Of course not, silly me. Anyway, there were no issues with trading our window with the person in the middle after asking if they wanted to switch. Much easier that way for all of us instead of keeping the original seats.
Jan 19, 2016, 4:27 pm
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That was not going to happen. Either stay in middle or take the window was the unspoken part of the offer. My DW gets up several times during long flights so easy aisle access is essential. If no trade, I had window and she had aisle.
Jan 19, 2016, 4:46 pm
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I usually fly alone, but next week, I have a two hour flight with a coworker. She is flying XXX-ATL, and we are both on the same flight from ATL-ZZZ. There is something we need to work on, so I called and got her moved - with her permission - and DL was nice enough to allow her in C+. I was going to take the middle seat, to her aisle, when I remembered I'd been following this thread. Thanks, DrDiarrhea, for preventing my making a mistake. In this case, we can always ask the middle seat to switch with one of us should the seat not be empty.
Jan 19, 2016, 5:41 pm
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When I was a teenager I went to National Jamboree in Washington DC for Boy Scouts. On my flight home, I had a window seat, and when I board there is someone in my seat. Her traveling companion is in the aisle, and they look at me...in my full Boy Scout uniform....and ask if I really wanted the window or if I'd take the middle.
Being in full uniform, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your POV, tempered the teenage desire to say something snarky, and I dutifuly took the middle seat, only to have them speak directly across me in Spanish until the fasten seat belt sign turned off and I was mercifully able to move to another empty middle seat with a couple of other people who were on the trip with me.
This is one of those scenarios I still replay in my head about what I should have said!
Being in full uniform, fortunately or unfortunately depending on your POV, tempered the teenage desire to say something snarky, and I dutifuly took the middle seat, only to have them speak directly across me in Spanish until the fasten seat belt sign turned off and I was mercifully able to move to another empty middle seat with a couple of other people who were on the trip with me.
This is one of those scenarios I still replay in my head about what I should have said!
Jan 19, 2016, 6:35 pm
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About 5 minutes later we started conspicuously canoodling in a corner, and then we left together.
Was great fun to watch the reactions.
Back on topic, we always take the aisle/window as well, but if there is someone in the middle, I give them my aisle so Mrs. Lee can keep the window.