“Do You Know Who I Am?”: The Definitive Thread of DYKWIA Stories
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The rule is that non-revs are to be offered a meal selection only after all other passengers have been given their choice. The rule used to be that even among non-revs, the FAs are supposed to go in priority order (i.e., buddy passes last), but I don't know if that's still the rule.
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Many nonrevs will discretely volunteer a second choice or even say that it doesn't matter to them and offer to take what's left.
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The order ought to be:
1. Paid passengers. Doesn't matter if they paid cash, miles, cash+miles, cash+RUC/GUC, whatever. Those are all paid.
2. Op-ups.
3. Non-rev.
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Those of us who understand, yes. (I'll volunteer a second choice because there's usually at least one meal I can't eat due to dietary restrictions.)
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On my TPAC flight (to be clear, in paid D1 so the "want D1, buy D1" crowd here can't get excited), meal orders were being taken in some nonstandard way. In fact, I had to remind the FA doing that task three times that my meal choice hadn't been requested yet. I might have been the last business class passenger to order as a result.
When the FA finally diegned to let me order dinner, she said that my choice, the beef, was out. My response: "Really? As a Diamond on a paid D1 ticket, I would have expected to get my first choice especially since I know that there are a lot of nonrevs in D1 on this flight today." Implicitly I knew that she understood that I was prepared to file a complaint with DL if I didn't get the beef. She said that she would have the purser come talk to me. However, a few minutes later the FA came back and said that they had somehow "found" a beef entree for me.
For the record, there were about seventeen nonrevs in D1 on the flight and of course every D1 seat was occupied, with a few additional nonrevs getting coach seats and no one left behind.
Really it shouldn't be necessary to remind the FAs working in D1 on prime long haul routes (and this was a FA who looked older, so she presumably has been a FA for DL/PMNW for a very long time) of the rule that nonrevs are supposed to get the meals that are left over after all revenue passengers have made their selections. It would have been extremely improbable that none of the seventeen or so nonrevs had picked the beef and I knew it, so I would have been ready to file a complaint on that basis and point out that procedures weren't followed, starting with the initial order in which meal choices were taken.
When the FA finally diegned to let me order dinner, she said that my choice, the beef, was out. My response: "Really? As a Diamond on a paid D1 ticket, I would have expected to get my first choice especially since I know that there are a lot of nonrevs in D1 on this flight today." Implicitly I knew that she understood that I was prepared to file a complaint with DL if I didn't get the beef. She said that she would have the purser come talk to me. However, a few minutes later the FA came back and said that they had somehow "found" a beef entree for me.
For the record, there were about seventeen nonrevs in D1 on the flight and of course every D1 seat was occupied, with a few additional nonrevs getting coach seats and no one left behind.
Really it shouldn't be necessary to remind the FAs working in D1 on prime long haul routes (and this was a FA who looked older, so she presumably has been a FA for DL/PMNW for a very long time) of the rule that nonrevs are supposed to get the meals that are left over after all revenue passengers have made their selections. It would have been extremely improbable that none of the seventeen or so nonrevs had picked the beef and I knew it, so I would have been ready to file a complaint on that basis and point out that procedures weren't followed, starting with the initial order in which meal choices were taken.
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
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Actually it is your fault. Delta used to go by status but one Diamond complained that several others came before him. Now they go down one aisle and back another. Once seated "all in first are equal" (including non-revs). Next you will say that the diamond who used miles and is thus also a non-rev, should come last. FOR SHAME ON YOU!!!!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
Only someone who isn't paying anything (except maybe taxes, which don't affect Delta's revenue) is a non-rev.
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Actually it is your fault. Delta used to go by status but one Diamond complained that several others came before him. Now they go down one aisle and back another. Once seated "all in first are equal" (including non-revs). Next you will say that the diamond who used miles and is thus also a non-rev, should come last. FOR SHAME ON YOU!!!!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
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Actually it is your fault. Delta used to go by status but one Diamond complained that several others came before him. Now they go down one aisle and back another. Once seated "all in first are equal" (including non-revs). Next you will say that the diamond who used miles and is thus also a non-rev, should come last. FOR SHAME ON YOU!!!!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
I think it is entirely appropriate for revenue passengers to get their meal choices before non-revs and I think that MSPeconomist addressed it well.
While you might disagree in substance, your personal attack against her is uncalled for.
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Actually it is your fault. Delta used to go by status but one Diamond complained that several others came before him. Now they go down one aisle and back another. Once seated "all in first are equal" (including non-revs). Next you will say that the diamond who used miles and is thus also a non-rev, should come last. FOR SHAME ON YOU!!!!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
You should have ordered what you wanted online prior to the flight.
It is you who are a DYKWIA and what this forum is about!
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("Paying" includes upgrades and FF mile awards, by the way.)
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