Wearing jewelry in China
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Wearing jewelry in China
I feal silly asking this as I cannot imagine actually worrying about it, but my wife has heard that she should not wear her wedding/engagement ring in China because someone might cut off her finger to steal it. Is this a common occurance (its no hope diamond)? or is this more fear mongering from her mother? We'll only be in Beijing and Shanghai and don't plan on going to any remote villages or anything (unless I can get a great deal for one of my kidneys) .
Paranoid?
Rothsix
Paranoid?
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Unless you are bound and determined to "walk on the wild side" and expereience some of the seamier elements of Chinese cities, you will have absolutely no problem with personal security as a western visitor. Tourist $ and business investment are too valuable to Chinese government/society for problems to be tolerated.
Now, if you are an ethnic Chinese visitor, again finding yourself in the wrong place at the wrong time, your personal security odds go down a bit. Too easy to mistake you for a local, or worse yet a rich Chinese diaspora visitor.
Often read of HKers visitng Shenzhen getting into trouble. Rare to read of white westerners having problems, unless htey asked for them.
Now, if you are an ethnic Chinese visitor, again finding yourself in the wrong place at the wrong time, your personal security odds go down a bit. Too easy to mistake you for a local, or worse yet a rich Chinese diaspora visitor.
Often read of HKers visitng Shenzhen getting into trouble. Rare to read of white westerners having problems, unless htey asked for them.
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Originally Posted by Rothsix
I feal silly asking this as I cannot imagine actually worrying about it, but my wife has heard that she should not wear her wedding/engagement ring in China because someone might cut off her finger to steal it. Is this a common occurance (its no hope diamond)?
or is this more fear mongering from her mother? We'll only be in Beijing and Shanghai and don't plan on going to any remote villages or anything (unless I can get a great deal for one of my kidneys) .
BTW, feel free to go to remote villages. Particularly around Shanghai there are some wonderful well-preserved ancient towns. We liked Tong Li, near Shanghai. I wouldn't exactly call it remote, but it's a preserved, medieval Chinese town (as well as a world historic site) that's wonderful to visit (though a bit touristy -- the Chinese like to visit it, too).
Paranoid?
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Sorry Dawei, someone always gets offended. It was certainly not the intention.
My wife is Chinese and I am a full blown Gweilo. Her parents came to Canada from Hong Kong in the 70s and I think my MIL still thinks that China is as she remembers it. She tends to go on with the worrying as well (you should have heard what she said when I took my wife to New York).
My purpose was to get a bit of ammunition to provide my MIL to try to get her to worry (and fear-monger) less. This I think several of you have provided, and I am very grateful. She is a very nice lady, and I love her a lot, she just has a way of starting the panic off on the right foot. The kidney thing was one of her prior concerns.....
PTravel, thanks for the comments, and I fully expect that you will be right. I am a rather large ex-cop and I do not find myself afraid very often. There have been instances in several US cities where I thought I might be in for some trouble (Charlestown comes to mind immediately). I am trying to convince my wife that we should move over there somewhere and this is somewhat of an exploratory expedition.
Thanks everyone. At least I can tell my wife to go ahead and wear her ring.
Rothsix
My wife is Chinese and I am a full blown Gweilo. Her parents came to Canada from Hong Kong in the 70s and I think my MIL still thinks that China is as she remembers it. She tends to go on with the worrying as well (you should have heard what she said when I took my wife to New York).
My purpose was to get a bit of ammunition to provide my MIL to try to get her to worry (and fear-monger) less. This I think several of you have provided, and I am very grateful. She is a very nice lady, and I love her a lot, she just has a way of starting the panic off on the right foot. The kidney thing was one of her prior concerns.....
PTravel, thanks for the comments, and I fully expect that you will be right. I am a rather large ex-cop and I do not find myself afraid very often. There have been instances in several US cities where I thought I might be in for some trouble (Charlestown comes to mind immediately). I am trying to convince my wife that we should move over there somewhere and this is somewhat of an exploratory expedition.
Thanks everyone. At least I can tell my wife to go ahead and wear her ring.
Rothsix
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Originally Posted by Rothsix
PTravel, thanks for the comments, and I fully expect that you will be right. I am a rather large ex-cop and I do not find myself afraid very often. There have been instances in several US cities where I thought I might be in for some trouble (Charlestown comes to mind immediately). I am trying to convince my wife that we should move over there somewhere and this is somewhat of an exploratory expedition.
When I first started visiting China, a little over 10 years ago, I felt safe walking down the darkest of dark alleys in the middle of the night. Public safety deteriorated a tiny bit when China privatized business ownership and a lot of people lost their "iron ricebowl" jobs. However, street crime of the kind that's a concern in the US has never been anywhere near as prevelant in China, partly because of culturual differences, but also because the PRC government simply doesn't tolerate it. Basically, you get to commit one street crime and, when you're caught (and you will be), your "career," freedom (and possibly a lot more) are over.
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Chinese cities are very safe in general, in terms of safety you can almost compare them with HK, Seoul and Taipei. (perhaps with the exception of Shenzhen, where the population are majority migrants who could disappear without trace -- it is perhaps the single incidence where your finger-cutting story comes from. in fact the only similar story i heard of happened in HK about 10 years ago, where the lady was killed and the robbers have been stalking her for many days about that huge diamond ring.).
i see no problem wearing jewelry on the street, esp in broad daylight and in tourist areas where there are a lot of people. (but then all streets in china are packed with people )
if she has a gweilo next to her. she is a lot safer. because the potential thief/robber knows that if they mess with gweilo they would attract more attention from police
in my hundreds of trips into chinese cities, i often walk on streets even in the middle of the night. never ever saw a single robbery.
i see no problem wearing jewelry on the street, esp in broad daylight and in tourist areas where there are a lot of people. (but then all streets in china are packed with people )
if she has a gweilo next to her. she is a lot safer. because the potential thief/robber knows that if they mess with gweilo they would attract more attention from police
in my hundreds of trips into chinese cities, i often walk on streets even in the middle of the night. never ever saw a single robbery.
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Originally Posted by pegasus8228
Chinese cities are very safe in general, in terms of safety you can almost compare them with HK, Seoul and Taipei. (perhaps with the exception of Shenzhen, where the population are majority migrants who could disappear without trace -- it is perhaps the single incidence where your finger-cutting story comes from. in fact the only similar story i heard of happened in HK about 10 years ago, where the lady was killed and the robbers have been stalking her for many days about that huge diamond ring.).
i see no problem wearing jewelry on the street, esp in broad daylight and in tourist areas where there are a lot of people. (but then all streets in china are packed with people )
if she has a gweilo next to her. she is a lot safer. because the potential thief/robber knows that if they mess with gweilo they would attract more attention from police
in my hundreds of trips into chinese cities, i often walk on streets even in the middle of the night. never ever saw a single robbery.
i see no problem wearing jewelry on the street, esp in broad daylight and in tourist areas where there are a lot of people. (but then all streets in china are packed with people )
if she has a gweilo next to her. she is a lot safer. because the potential thief/robber knows that if they mess with gweilo they would attract more attention from police
in my hundreds of trips into chinese cities, i often walk on streets even in the middle of the night. never ever saw a single robbery.
If you walk around flaunting your diamonds, you're only asking for trouble. Having said that, Chinese (as most Asians) luv their gold studded Rolex, etc. (are they real or not is the question).
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I have just got back from a 3 week vacation in China. I wear a Rolex, my wife a Breitling + diamond rings. We were in Shanghai, Beijing, Xi'an, Chengdu and Juizhaigou. Never once did we feel threatened and all our fingers and kidneys returned safely with us.
The biggest problem we had was over-friendly Chinese wanting to take our photo's and practice their english!!
Enjoy China - it's just great!!
The biggest problem we had was over-friendly Chinese wanting to take our photo's and practice their english!!
Enjoy China - it's just great!!
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of course, common sense prevail. e.g. don't go around and tell people how pricey and how authentic they are. that is attracting trouble.
china does have its criminals. but a few things about china works in your favor
1. culturally chinese are law abiding -- 2000 years of education on obeying authority
2. there were tight control and severe penalty back in the Mao era, still ripple through today (though weaker).
3. as indicated above, too many people wearing fake (eg rolex), it is hard for the average thug to know what is real
china does have its criminals. but a few things about china works in your favor
1. culturally chinese are law abiding -- 2000 years of education on obeying authority
2. there were tight control and severe penalty back in the Mao era, still ripple through today (though weaker).
3. as indicated above, too many people wearing fake (eg rolex), it is hard for the average thug to know what is real
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Just make sure your wife stays away from Chinese bicycle thieves and you'll be OK.
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I have not been to "mainland China," but commonsense precautions apply concerning wearing jewelry everywhere. I never wear my diamond rings on trips. I have a plain gold band that I always wear while traveling. And I don't feel the need to wear expensive watches, relying on my good ol' Timexes instead.
Nice costume jewelry suffices for any of my travels, although sometimes I take pearls and/or some David Yurman pieces if I'm attending an out-of-town wedding or other dressy occasion.
If you're worried, why not make your mother-in-law happy by following her suggestion. You would gain a lot of points that way!
Nice costume jewelry suffices for any of my travels, although sometimes I take pearls and/or some David Yurman pieces if I'm attending an out-of-town wedding or other dressy occasion.
If you're worried, why not make your mother-in-law happy by following her suggestion. You would gain a lot of points that way!