Visiting boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancé in USA - Immigration concerns
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booking for random times e.g. long into future when the seats are cheap
when seats are reserved but only for one way
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I would be careful to use this approach. It is one thing to have a second passport to hide some destinations that you've been to, but it's another thing to actively lie about it, which you would most likely do if you travel to the US with one passport, but having a second passport for those countries, that require you to get a visa if the US knows about them.
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I would be careful to use this approach. It is one thing to have a second passport to hide some destinations that you've been to, but it's another thing to actively lie about it, which you would most likely do if you travel to the US with one passport, but having a second passport for those countries, that require you to get a visa if the US knows about them.
"The applicant has confirmed travel plans to a foreign country which will deny a visa or entry to the bearer of a passport containing markings or visas showing travel to certain other countries."
https://uk.usembassy.gov/u-s-citizen...cond-passport/
If I were Norwegian and travelled to Iran in the past 5 years I'd get a new passport and travel to the US with it on ESTA without going through B2 visa hassle and still having great chances of getting sent to secondary once landed on US soil.
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I'm talking about doing things legally like in the US where you can apply for a 2nd one provided you have good reasons:
"The applicant has confirmed travel plans to a foreign country which will deny a visa or entry to the bearer of a passport containing markings or visas showing travel to certain other countries."
https://uk.usembassy.gov/u-s-citizen...cond-passport/
If I were Norwegian and travelled to Iran in the past 5 years I'd get a new passport and travel to the US with it on ESTA without going through B2 visa hassle and still having great chances of getting sent to secondary once landed on US soil.
"The applicant has confirmed travel plans to a foreign country which will deny a visa or entry to the bearer of a passport containing markings or visas showing travel to certain other countries."
https://uk.usembassy.gov/u-s-citizen...cond-passport/
If I were Norwegian and travelled to Iran in the past 5 years I'd get a new passport and travel to the US with it on ESTA without going through B2 visa hassle and still having great chances of getting sent to secondary once landed on US soil.
#36
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Will the CBP officer deny my entry into the U.S. if I have insufficient funds?
I am 18 years old and currently live in New Zealand. I plan to visit my friend in the United States for the Summer (so about 3 months) Because I have insufficient "spending money," my friend has written me a letter of invitation (assures my financial responsibilities will be covered during my stay) to show the CBP officer. However, my fear is that it will not guarantee my admission into the states and I will be sent back.
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Will you be traveling on a NZ passport or the passport of some other country?
How do you know this friend? Is this a "boyfriend I've only met online" sort of relationship?
Who is paying for your flights?
What specifically do you plan to do in the USA for three months?
How much spending money do you have? What happens if, a week after a arrival, your friend flakes out or you have a fight and the friend kicks you out of the house?
What ties do you have to New Zealand or your home country and what documents can you show them if necessary to establish that you plan to start or continue a life back in New Zealand or your home country (like school enrollment, a lease, a job offer, etc.) rather than overstaying the the USA or trying to work in the USA?
How do you know this friend? Is this a "boyfriend I've only met online" sort of relationship?
Who is paying for your flights?
What specifically do you plan to do in the USA for three months?
How much spending money do you have? What happens if, a week after a arrival, your friend flakes out or you have a fight and the friend kicks you out of the house?
What ties do you have to New Zealand or your home country and what documents can you show them if necessary to establish that you plan to start or continue a life back in New Zealand or your home country (like school enrollment, a lease, a job offer, etc.) rather than overstaying the the USA or trying to work in the USA?
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I am 18 years old and currently live in New Zealand. I plan to visit my friend in the United States for the Summer (so about 3 months) Because I have insufficient "spending money," my friend has written me a letter of invitation (assures my financial responsibilities will be covered during my stay) to show the CBP officer. However, my fear is that it will not guarantee my admission into the states and I will be sent back.
If this appears to be a mail-order/internet "romance" of some sort; the chances of problems rise even more.
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The term "friend" covers a broad array of people. Is this someone with whom you grew up and who moved away (or you moved away)? Or is this a girlfriend/boyfriend? How did you meet? How many times have you met in person?
Depending on your age and circumstances, the CBP Officer may want to know a great deal more about the relationship and the means of the "friend".
As others note, a key issue are your reasons to return to New Zealand at the conclusion of your visit. Do you have a job there and can you demonstrate that it will still be there for you? Are you in school working towards a degree and must you return for that? Turning this around, what is there to stop you from simply overstaying in the US?
Beyond spending money, how will you live over here? Where will you stay? What happens if you get sick or injured? Do you have insurance which will cover the costs of treatment here in the US? Will New Zealand help?
As others note, are you a New Zealand national traveling on a NZ passport?
Rather than looking at this from your perspective, look at this from the perspective of CBP. An Officer will question whether you intend to overstay and become a burden on the US.
At the same time as assuring that you have documents and mobile numbers to reach anybody who needs to be reached, do not volunteer anything not asked. If you are asked a question, answer it 100% truthfully and do not play games about it. But, if you are not asked for something, do not offer it.
Depending on your age and circumstances, the CBP Officer may want to know a great deal more about the relationship and the means of the "friend".
As others note, a key issue are your reasons to return to New Zealand at the conclusion of your visit. Do you have a job there and can you demonstrate that it will still be there for you? Are you in school working towards a degree and must you return for that? Turning this around, what is there to stop you from simply overstaying in the US?
Beyond spending money, how will you live over here? Where will you stay? What happens if you get sick or injured? Do you have insurance which will cover the costs of treatment here in the US? Will New Zealand help?
As others note, are you a New Zealand national traveling on a NZ passport?
Rather than looking at this from your perspective, look at this from the perspective of CBP. An Officer will question whether you intend to overstay and become a burden on the US.
At the same time as assuring that you have documents and mobile numbers to reach anybody who needs to be reached, do not volunteer anything not asked. If you are asked a question, answer it 100% truthfully and do not play games about it. But, if you are not asked for something, do not offer it.
#40
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Visiting boyfriend/girlfriend/fiancé in USA - Immigration concerns
Hey, I've been in a really happy long distance relationship and back in March I visited my beloved boyfriend in the USA for the first time. I visited him for three weeks and next week I am booked to fly to visit him for 6 weeks for summer vacation.
I have gathered several things together, such as proof of being enrolled into a university course, proof of loans I have taken for university, credit card and sufficient funds and a copy of my return ticket. Howrver I can't help but feel a tad paranoid. Last time I said I was visiting friends as a tourist as I was sceptical on saying I was seeing my boyfriend. This time I worry that saying the same thing might be suspicious and I wonder if I should just say I'm visiting my boyfriend or if I should say I am returning to sight see again. I want to return for a few more trips to visit him in the future and I just worry that the more time goes on, the more suspicious it would seem to say I'm just visiting friends.
If anyone has any advice for what I should say for the upcoming visit, as well as advice for future visits perhaps that would be very appreciated, thank you!
Also I am flying from the United Kingdom
I have gathered several things together, such as proof of being enrolled into a university course, proof of loans I have taken for university, credit card and sufficient funds and a copy of my return ticket. Howrver I can't help but feel a tad paranoid. Last time I said I was visiting friends as a tourist as I was sceptical on saying I was seeing my boyfriend. This time I worry that saying the same thing might be suspicious and I wonder if I should just say I'm visiting my boyfriend or if I should say I am returning to sight see again. I want to return for a few more trips to visit him in the future and I just worry that the more time goes on, the more suspicious it would seem to say I'm just visiting friends.
If anyone has any advice for what I should say for the upcoming visit, as well as advice for future visits perhaps that would be very appreciated, thank you!
Also I am flying from the United Kingdom
#41
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Be honest. "I'm visiting my boyfriend. He's here in the US while I'm at university in the UK working on my degree/postgrad studies/PhD." Be open about giving the officer his number to contact if need be and truthful about how and how long you've known him, and who paid for the tickets. But just be honest. And don't overstay!
(If you say you're visiting friends and the officer calls your boyfriend, who then tells the officer he's your boyfriend, relationship, blah, blah, you will raise suspicion as to why you called him a "friend" when he's said he's more than that.)
(If you say you're visiting friends and the officer calls your boyfriend, who then tells the officer he's your boyfriend, relationship, blah, blah, you will raise suspicion as to why you called him a "friend" when he's said he's more than that.)
#42
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You will probably go through automated passport control and not even see an officer.
But, my girlfriend visited me a few times in the US and had no issues. Granted, she had a history of travel to the US without any issues, but with the proof you have you should be ok. Just be comfortable and confident about the story, which is the truth.
But, my girlfriend visited me a few times in the US and had no issues. Granted, she had a history of travel to the US without any issues, but with the proof you have you should be ok. Just be comfortable and confident about the story, which is the truth.
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Hey, I've been in a really happy long distance relationship and back in March I visited my beloved boyfriend in the USA for the first time. I visited him for three weeks and next week I am booked to fly to visit him for 6 weeks for summer vacation.
I have gathered several things together, such as proof of being enrolled into a university course, proof of loans I have taken for university, credit card and sufficient funds and a copy of my return ticket. Howrver I can't help but feel a tad paranoid. Last time I said I was visiting friends as a tourist as I was sceptical on saying I was seeing my boyfriend. This time I worry that saying the same thing might be suspicious and I wonder if I should just say I'm visiting my boyfriend or if I should say I am returning to sight see again. I want to return for a few more trips to visit him in the future and I just worry that the more time goes on, the more suspicious it would seem to say I'm just visiting friends.
If anyone has any advice for what I should say for the upcoming visit, as well as advice for future visits perhaps that would be very appreciated, thank you!
Also I am flying from the United Kingdom
I have gathered several things together, such as proof of being enrolled into a university course, proof of loans I have taken for university, credit card and sufficient funds and a copy of my return ticket. Howrver I can't help but feel a tad paranoid. Last time I said I was visiting friends as a tourist as I was sceptical on saying I was seeing my boyfriend. This time I worry that saying the same thing might be suspicious and I wonder if I should just say I'm visiting my boyfriend or if I should say I am returning to sight see again. I want to return for a few more trips to visit him in the future and I just worry that the more time goes on, the more suspicious it would seem to say I'm just visiting friends.
If anyone has any advice for what I should say for the upcoming visit, as well as advice for future visits perhaps that would be very appreciated, thank you!
Also I am flying from the United Kingdom
If asked where you are staying, mentioning that you are “staying” with your boyfriend will tend to go over better on average than saying that you are going to “live” with your boyfriend.
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