View Full Version : The Gay Scene in ANC


eastwest
Mar 31, 02, 7:36 pm
I'm not sure you all want to hear a straight man's view of the gay scene in ANC, but wharvey encouraged me to post a review here, so I will. http://www.flyertalk.com/travel/fttravel_forum/smile.gif

For my Psychology class (Human Sexuality) this semester, we are required to visit two events in the community that are related to the class that we would normally not attend. I chose to attend a performance of The Vagina Monologues and to go see a drag show at Mad Myrnas.

eastwest's thoughts on Mad Myrna's.

Mad Myrna's is located on 5th Ave on the eastside of downtown. It's a short walk from most of the major downtown hotels. If you get on 5th and go east you can't miss it. It's very near the Sheraton. The front door is not used -- you have to enter through the back. (I don't know if its supposed to be a joke "enter through the back" or if its a security thing or a privacy thing or what . . . but that's how it works.) There is free parking (somewhat limited) around the back as well.

I arrived at 8pm and there was no cover and the place wasn't busy. It's fairly big with a bar in the main room along with pool tables and pin ball and darts. There are two side rooms one of which has a stage and is used for performances. I was there for the 9pm drag show.

The drag show is two hours and is from 9pm until 11pm on Friday nights. I was told that it attracts a mixed crowd (maybe 60% gay and 40% straight) but the bar at other times is almost exclusively gay.

Between 8 and 9 the bar filled up quickly and the show was standing room only. I'd recommend you arrive no later than 8:30 if you want a seat and even earlier if you want a good one.

I've never been to a drag show except this one time so it's difficult for me to make comparisons. My general thoughts were that it was quite fun, that if you are straight and sitting in the front (like I was) you need to have a good sense of humor as you will be made fun of quite a bit. The show wasn't classy by any stretch and to the contrary, people were encouraged to get drunk and expose themselves (several did just that) and to generally behave rather lewdly. I enjoyed the flashing girls but it was difficult to ascertain who was gay and who was straight. http://www.flyertalk.com/travel/fttravel_forum/confused.gif

After the show, I went back out to the main bar room and it was packed. The straight crowd seemed to clear out rapidly and over the next hour or so the place took on a very gay feeling. (No offense meant, I just don't know how else to explain it.)

There was dancing in both rooms and the music and lights were pretty cool. I was getting hit on a lot and the place seemed like a meat market -- lots of same sex couples making out, lots of people picking up on people, lots of alcohol everywhere.

After I had a chance to talk with a few of the performers (who were all quite agreeable to being interviewed) I left.

Other random observations/notes:

-The gay community in ANC is fairly underground. This bar is about as "open" as it gets and its the only one of its kind in Alaska.

-Out of a dozen or so performers, there are two that actually live as transsexuals outside of the club.

-There were women dressed as men as well as men dressed as women in the show.

-People tipped the performers but there wasn't any "pressure" to do so.

-The bar doesn't have a great draft beer selection.

-The bathrooms are tiny.

-I got the impression that meeting people to pay for sex goes on there. It was somewhat discreet but I'm pretty sure I saw some deals being made.

-Overall the people were pretty friendly. Security was present but not overbearing. There were no fights or angry yelling. The police didn't show up at all.

I hope this is informative and if it's offensive, I apologize. Please feel free to post comments, criticisms, questions, and I'll do my best to answer them.

Your FT friend,
-eastwest http://www.flyertalk.com/travel/fttravel_forum/smile.gif

blairvanhorn
Apr 1, 02, 6:51 am
eastwest: Thanks for this "trip report"! I really found it interesting. I've only been to Alaska once, on a three day business trip to Anchorage for a case my law firm was working on at the time. As the case involved interstate trucking and the pipeline, my entertaining was limited to truckers, union honchos and employees of a local Anchorage firm that were co-counsel on the case. So, needless to say, I didn't get to Mad Myrna's! (I'm not even sure it existed then, I was there in 1985).

A few questions:

Why do you think the gay scene is so "underground" in ANC? I can imagine a few answers, but your local persepective would be welcome.

Not to be too personal, but how did you deal with being hit on? I've been "hit on" in straight bars, but I have a feeling women hitting on men are a bit more subtle. Did it give you any insight as to how women feel in bars, especially when they are alone? There have been discussions here at FlyerTalk about dining/drinking alone while traveling (including a long thread started by MatthewClement).

Thanks again for an interesting post.

[This message has been edited by blairvanhorn (edited 04-01-2002).]

gwendolynaoife
Apr 1, 02, 12:13 pm
<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Originally posted by blairvanhorn:
eastwest:
Not to be too personal, but how did you deal with being hit on? I've been "hit on" in straight bars, but I have a feeling women hitting on men are a bit more subtle. Did it give you any insight as to how straight women feel in bars, especially when they are alone?

Thanks again for an interesting post.</font>

i second the thanks.

as for the "how straight women feel in bars", i would humbly note that it applies to us lesbian sorts too; we don't always hang out in bars that cater specifically to us and a goodly lot of us are really pretty constantly assumed to be straight. i've been hit on when dancing with my partner or sitting next to her on a plane. it's kinda funny to me, because i think it might be some sort of "desire what you can't have" thing. i dinna.

it's sometimes heaps lots frustrating, but i could get cracking on the systemic devaluation of same-sex relationships and then i'd never shut up.

wharvey
Apr 1, 02, 2:55 pm
Eastwest,

Thanks for posting this report... I found it very enlightening to see a straight person view of the gay scene. I was particulary interested since we do not do the bar/gay scene at all... and always wonder how other see the issues.

Thanks again for taking the time to do this and share with us.

William

blairvanhorn
Apr 1, 02, 3:03 pm
gwendolynaoife: Sorry about that, a truly dumb comment on my part. I edited my remarks above. I really did mean women in general. http://www.flyertalk.com/travel/fttravel_forum/smile.gif

eastwest
Jul 6, 05, 6:55 pm
Wow...here's a blast ffom the past. <laughs>

vincom
Jul 7, 05, 4:26 pm
I ws in ANC last november on a MR and was told by the freindly lesbian waitress at the airport to go to Mad Myrnas I had a good time actually...

As with everything, its what you make out of it.

It sure beat sitting my my hotel room for 8 hours all alone...

-Vincent

Kurt
Jul 9, 05, 1:38 am
Don't know why but this thread made me think of a very funny piece I saw in The Onion (http://www.theonion.com/opinion/index.php?issue=4127) recently. Warning: it's a bit naughty but made me laugh out loud.

vincom
Jul 9, 05, 6:12 am
Don't know why but this thread made me think of a very funny piece I saw in The Onion (http://www.theonion.com/opinion/index.php?issue=4127) recently. Warning: it's a bit naughty but made me laugh out loud.


MMMMM You can always count on The Onion for quality news reporting...

-Vincent

Randeman
Jul 9, 05, 9:46 am
There's a "gay scene" in ANC?!?!?!

Huh! Who woulda thunk it?

AJLondon
Jul 9, 05, 11:21 am
Wow...here's a blast ffom the past. <laughs>
But a most interesting one nonetheless! Especially for those of us who missed it first time round. :)

vincom
Jul 9, 05, 12:10 pm
But a most interesting one nonetheless! Especially for those of us who missed it first time round. :)

Jus' thinking about the it makes me wanna consider a MR back to ANC... okay maybe not lol

-Vincent

BackOfTheBus
Dec 13, 06, 10:37 pm
I shall be visting ANC between X-mas and New Year's on a semi-MR/ski-run... hope they have enough snow!

Anyone up in ANC for a drink? I might even have a big-honking RV at my disposal to skid around in the snow with!:D