Here is an exemplary list for the male traveler from an OBOW post. I call it the "ultimate packing list". Well, of course, it isn't but it's a REALLY good starting point.
http://www.1bag1world.com/obow-light...um/post/862808
I note on the clothes that you are wearing on the plane that if you are paranoid about these things your chances of suffering very bad burns will be less if you wear natural fibers instead of man-made fibers. Wool is especially fire-retardant and is basically the single best clothing material if ever there was one.
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