It is me, the OP again.
OK, so I have gone back to "M" about six times since that original post (told you, I like the place.) I usually go late afternoon or early evening.
Maybe it is just me, but seriously - those cocktail waitresses just don't stop. I don't play tables - just machines. They can see I have my full Diet Coke in my plastic cup and STILL they will come up to me and say, "Drinks?" and stand there looking at me until I answer them and say "No thanks."
Maybe I have some kind of vibe I give out or something. As mentioned, I really like the place, but somebody must have put an invisible target on my back saying, "This guy tips big!" or something...