Originally Posted by
mlasser
I rarely ask and have rarely been asked about reclining but it's a seat function just like a light or air vent that's there for your comfort. It would be better if the seat had a damper to prevent it being slammed in either direction, but since they don't folks should be cognizant of sudden movements. If someone in front of me or even next to becomes a PITA with their seat, I'd politely ask them to take it a little easier when changing the seat positions.
+1
As much as I hate it when the person in front of me reclines, I like to recline on occasion, so I can't get upset when others do it. However, if they are being aggressive or frequent with their seat reclines, I will ask them to be a little more considerate of my knees. Likewise, I have no problem saying something to the parent of the child behind me who insists on kicking the back of my seat.